Thing which facinates me alot is that, love is very big part of our life, and we almost never talk about it.
why we love?
its a thing of luck when IT comes, it drags everthing with it, its like a tsunami and you cant defend yourself.
why do u fall in love with a one specific person and not another?
love is based on our memory, moments,emotions,things which we most like from our childhood to our teen age.we creat a imaginary figures of that person , and when that persons comes up in our lifes, you are in love. your friends will say, he/she is ugly.. but you don give a dam, becuase you are in love already becuase that person makes you go wild,do things you never wanted to do. you touch his hand and feel that temperature that makes me feel confortable. you puzzle just got solved there
i like to divide love in 4 stages
Stage 1
in the first stage of life its all good, you are all happy becuase you are druged.
in this stage when it is a real love, ladies are always have high testosterone and males are have dotamine, in easy words, ladies want to get wild and man wants to talk. you can talk for hours and hours and its all good.its that thing which we normally say, sari raat neend nhi ati. you are watcing movie but you dont even know what is the title. you are naturally designed to have those testerones and dotamine in your body for more and less 8-10 months becuase more then that it will harm you, then comes the next stage
Stage 2
there comes the confort,its not like beggining, you feel great with that person , where you are happy and you want to make your partner happy too, you try to help me, this stages is 4-5 years but it depends .
Stage 3
everything you used to like they dont feel them anymore, you body is full of obligations,you start living the life for others, the worst part of this stage is when you stop,hearing,looking..itdoesnt matter, becuase they already know al why to tell. now is where the seperation,divorces,cheats come up..you dont care anymore the evoluction of the partner...but there are people who survive that stage.
Stage 4
this is the stage where all things from past stages stays as memories, you get fat, your hair gets white, you get wrinkels,sex is gone and the only thing which remains of the other person is the personality, what he emits. here is where comes ishq e haqiqi ,that love when even you are fighting you hold his hand ask , i know you love me, lets fight throw this
, you have to be very generious to get to this stage , but if you have reached, you my friend are champion.
Stage 4
this is the stage where all things from past stages stays as memories, you get fat, your hair gets white, you get wrinkels,sex is gone and the only thing which remains of the other person is the personality, what he emits. here is where comes ishq e haqiqi ,that love when even you are fighting you hold his hand ask , i know you love me, lets fight throw this
, you have to be very generious to get to this stage , but if you have reached, you my friend are champion.
so you guys really want me to do a serious article on love, lo,pharo.
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